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Most breakups are totally preventable - but the you cannot do what feels "natural" (calling all the time, apologizing endlessly, etc.). |
Get Your Ex Back
Your partner moved out. Sparks flew. You said some things you wish you hadn't. Now you are looking for a magic spell to erase it all. Short of inventing time travel, erasing the past isn't possible. Changing the future is possible though. Get your ex back by learning how to love him or her. You know what you want. Do you know what your partner wants? Do you know what to say to make them feel good?
We are all different, we grew up in different environments, we have different learning styles, we perceive events differently. The same is true for love. You may think giving your girlfriend an expensive ring will buy you their love when all they want is to hear you tell them a story. They want to hear you tell them you love them, you can cook for them, buy them gifts and it doesn't impress them. Whisper three words in their ear and they light up as if you gave them the world.
If you want to get your ex back, find out what they need from you. Your interactions may be limited now but there are ways to provide your ex boyfriend what they need. Start giving, don't expect to get anything back. If you don't know where to start, pick up a book and get some ideas. Our instincts tend to guide us towards what we need, not what our partners need. Learn how to be a great partner. The world is full of stories of couples getting back together after a brief separation or even remarrying after a divorce. You may have messed up royally but help is available. Magic may not be able to change the past but the future is yours to shape.
